I am a personal Coach helping men with RELATIONSHIPS and INTIMACY. My aim is to enable my clients, along with their partners and families, to become more empowered and fulfilled. I believe that our self, relationships and intimacy must be nurtured attentively … even more than, say, our careers, bodies and social media profiles. My coaching clients are mainly settled, mature men who are in a long term, stable relationship with a special woman. My clients are actively seeking ways to work on themselves and their relationships.
I look forward to helping you revisit what it means to be a ‘man’, especially in light of today's complex and confusing messages about gender, families and relationships.
RELATIONSHIPS:
I can support a client’s relationship with a female partner, with the aim of helping him to develop a long-term, loving, stable union. I can also support you in attaining healthier and more meaningful interactions with other people, including work colleagues, children and friends.
INTIMACY:
I can guide you to enhance your intimate relations with your female partner. While intimacy is only part of a life partner relationship, it is a fundamental one that requires dedication, consideration and patience.
BENEFITS OF WORKING WITH ME INCLUDE:
Gain deep insights on women and create a strategy to move forward with your lady
Learn proven skills to Connect to your lady better than ever before, on an emotional, physical and mental level
Develop a whole range of formidable and practical intimacy skills, for both of you
Grow your Authenticity and Inner Power with my unique ‘Warrior - Wizard - Lover’ model
Learn Simple Communication Skills and techniques, to reduce arguments and build a stronger relationship
Decode your partner’s hidden messages and learn what she really wants, so you can give it to her
Talk about things many men would not normally dare to share
ABOUT MERLIN:
They say I am a charismatic, well-rounded, widely-travelled and vocationally-experienced gentleman, who also has more than a few scars (physical and emotional) to show for an intensely-lived life. After earning a management degree from the London School of Economics (LSE), I founded a highly-successful UK charity to aid development and skills-building in Africa. I am heading up an accelerator for social impact investing in Asia.
In my personal Coaching, I utilise a decades-deep understanding of ancient Asian practices which aim to connect mind, body and soul. I am also an accomplished sailor, yachtsman, off-piste snowboarder and cyclist, and an expert practitioner/instructor of Tai Chi and Taoist arts, including Longevity Breathing.
I am a beginner in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, kite-surfing and Callisthenics.
I am a course and book ‘junkie’ (frankly, and as all my friends know), and am distilling wisdom from a great many experts in different areas. Courses include:
From Blair Singer I’ve learned how to facilitate and teach, goal setting, PERT, Team Code of Honour and Much more. Blair is one of the very best in the world, I’ve met Tony Robbins’ lead trainers attending his courses.
I’ve studied Tantra with 5 experts including Jan Day (Highly recommended) and Andrew Barnes, from whom I’ve learned a lot on touch, consent, pleasure, communication and some ‘amazing’ energy work.
Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi have taught me a lot of mindset work, life skills and practical personal development skills. I’m part way through a course in coaching by Robbins and Madanes.
Benjamin Hardy is one of my mentors, teaching me how to use Future Self, morning routines, POD groups, habits and lots more.
Andy Harrington (as well as Blair and Tony), has taught me mindset and how to develop and structure courses and a whole load of personal development.
I’ve worked directly with two Taoist Masters and I'm a qualified instructor in Taoist Longevity Breathing, Tai Chi and Qigong.
I’ve been studying Taoist Intimate practices for 25 years, and making Good progress on stamina / longevity.
I’ve trained in bodywork and massage with a few different teachers, myofascial release, deep tissue...
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“He utilises his God given and proven talent to help both men and women improve their relationship! His heart is in the right place. Come see him!”
Padmini Krishnan
London
“On a scale of zero to Merlin....Merlin was fantastic! Totally at ease and clearly passionate about a subject many would not dare to share. Great person to learn from! I would go back!”
Mervyn Fransen
Amsterdam
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If you feel that I fell short in any way on either Quality or Value, please let me know and I will issue a full and immediate refund.
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